I understand WhoLovesMagic.
I dont expect a birthday wish from my parents. It's just not worth the dissapointment. Heck, I was like them at one time, and didn't get my own Kiddos presants.
Since I have left, I do all that with my children. I also send cards to my none JW relatives and people that I have friended in real life and online. I really enjoy sending out cards. I take my time and pick out something that matches their peronality. hopefully.
If I may sugest, like others have. Next year. make your own celibration. Even if it's at your place, (i did that once) or go to a pub and tell them it's your B-Day , you'll get a free pint. Fun is not waiting for a call.
A Big Happy Birthday to you
eva